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Enderprincess@forestcat@social.nekover.se (2026-07-23 07:48:42)
@SuperDicq yeah that's what i mean, trans people should know better when experiencing it themselves often enough
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stefan (stefbun)@stefan@akko.lightnovel-dungeon.de (2026-07-23 13:06:57)
@forestcat @SuperDicq I do guess its kinda based on the activity as well if it would make sense to not include straights as well.
The argument I hear is that straight cis-people have enough other spaces they can go to so there is no need to allow them here.
I have not seen FLINTA-spaces (thats Women, Lesbians, Inter-people, non-binary people, trans people and agender people) for myself but I would not be allowed there as a cis-straight male anyway.
Though there are places where I am totally for just falling under queer umbrella while being straight-cis as well.
Way lovelier places than your usual clubs, bars or what have you. (Also I can just go there in whichever way I want to go. Skirts, Dresses what have you) Very valuable places for me. Look cute and be happy in.
Really need to try to go there more often.
I mean there circumstances where not including others makes sense (say some help-groups or whatever) and there are people that just don't want to have cis-men specifically around them.
And barging into there as what I am seems wrong as well and a good way to make everyone unhappy kinda.
Gone off-topic a little ey?
There certainly context where the assumption of cis-straight were to shift. Gay-bars and stuff.
I am generally happy with the community I have and from what I know no one will bat an eye for me joining some chaos event
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SuperDicq@SuperDicq@minidisc.tokyo (2026-07-23 15:46:58)
@stefan@akko.lightnovel-dungeon.de @forestcat@social.nekover.se If you wanna talk about chaos events specifically I do think there's some problems there.
For some events where sexuality actually matters like flinta cruising I think it makes sense why they are flinta only.
But when there's events where it shouldn't matter, like actual workshops I find it really odd to have flinta exclusive versions of them. That just feels exclusionary to me.
I do also have some opinions on flinta cruising as well. I find it really strange to have a hookup event like this at the actual event venue. The space and timeslot could have been used for something better and more inclusive.
The other hookup events such as KinkyGeeks (which I am a big fan of personally) at CCC were always organized outside of the convention at a different venue.