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SuperDicq@SuperDicq@minidisc.tokyo (2026-07-23 07:43:28)
@forestcat@social.nekover.se I do unfortunately know what it feels like to not be included for being cisgender. It's rare, because I assume transgender people experience the opposite much more often but it does happen unfortunately.
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Enderprincess@forestcat@social.nekover.se (2026-07-23 07:48:42)
@SuperDicq yeah that's what i mean, trans people should know better when experiencing it themselves often enough
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stefan (stefbun)@stefan@akko.lightnovel-dungeon.de (2026-07-23 13:06:57)
@forestcat @SuperDicq I do guess its kinda based on the activity as well if it would make sense to not include straights as well.
The argument I hear is that straight cis-people have enough other spaces they can go to so there is no need to allow them here.
I have not seen FLINTA-spaces (thats Women, Lesbians, Inter-people, non-binary people, trans people and agender people) for myself but I would not be allowed there as a cis-straight male anyway.
Though there are places where I am totally for just falling under queer umbrella while being straight-cis as well.
Way lovelier places than your usual clubs, bars or what have you. (Also I can just go there in whichever way I want to go. Skirts, Dresses what have you) Very valuable places for me. Look cute and be happy in.
Really need to try to go there more often.
I mean there circumstances where not including others makes sense (say some help-groups or whatever) and there are people that just don't want to have cis-men specifically around them.
And barging into there as what I am seems wrong as well and a good way to make everyone unhappy kinda.
Gone off-topic a little ey?
There certainly context where the assumption of cis-straight were to shift. Gay-bars and stuff.
I am generally happy with the community I have and from what I know no one will bat an eye for me joining some chaos event