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Blurry Moon@sun@shitposter.world (2026-08-01 09:05:57)
Ok but butt stuff is absolutely coupled with much much higher disease risk. It just is. Not saying that’s an excuse to hate people but people that do butt stuff, including heterosexual couples, are going to have to accept that it’s reasonable to find it vile. I can’t think of a nice way to say that. My out is I made a conscious choice to not care if people choose to do whatever as long as it’s consensual
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georgia@georgia@netzsphaere.xyz (2026-08-01 09:10:49)
@sun I agree with you that hatred of gay men can be caused by finding them dirty (like I said, I find anal sex disgusting but I dont find gay men themselves disgusting) but "they spread diseases" is very often an excuse to hate when the real reason is not so justifiable, like with refugees and the poor and medieval antisemitism. hence for homophobes it usually goes like "they get diseases because theyre bad" and not "theyre bad because they get diseases".

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kumicota@kumicota@akkoma.kumicota.moe (2026-08-01 09:15:10)
@georgia @sun One thing related to that always surprises me is the amount of people who that for some reason thinks you can't get HIV from straight sex, many times online and IRL, I've seen people and some of them have a higher degree than mine, saying with an open face that straight people can't get it