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Reply to @hj@shigusegubu.club
georgia@georgia@netzsphaere.xyz (2026-08-01 08:52:46)
@hj while youre right that a lot of homophobia against men is fear of being penetrated its moreso fear of being emasculated in general. your understanding of lesbophobia is wrong in my opinion. the idea is that women shouldnt "act like men" because women are inferior and thus can't be superior men, and that qualities which are good in men ruin women. all homophobia and transphobia are imo is "natal males/AMABS can't be/act like women because women are bad" and "natal females/AFABS can't be/act like men because women are bad." so in both cases, misogyny.
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Blurry Moon@sun@shitposter.world (2026-08-01 08:53:48)
What about people that are grossed out by poop

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georgia@georgia@netzsphaere.xyz (2026-08-01 09:00:42)
@sun that was part of hjs point. I'm grossed out by poop and thus hate butt stuff (also, not very into butts), but im not homophobic against gay men. the fear of spreading diseases is part of homophobia for many people and I won't say one can't be homophobic because of that, but I think its usually "men acting like women is bad" as the primary or at very least a secondary factor, hence you get so many straight men into butt stuff with women these days and also acceptance of masculine gay men who top historically. also, not all male sex with men is anal. that conception imo is rooted in a heterosexual coitus-centered understanding of sex.