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Vivian, Venus Pirate 🏳️‍⚧️🧋@Willow@chaosfem.tw

Mom, Early 40s. Home Cook. Queer baddie, anarcho-feminist writer, asexual dancer. I do hot girl shit (cry a lot, process my feelings, hold space for others) and I take needle drugs (#FeminizingHRT and #PrEP).

I do Data Engineering in exchange for money, but find me over at @willow_datawitch if that’s your jam.

Please interact with words, not just boosts and favorites, if you would like to follow me. I appreciate your button clicks! But I need words for vibe checks.

I think joy is way more important than I was taught in school.

I categorize some toots thusly:
#EstrogenLog, #EstrogenLogLabs, #WillowsFacialDysphoria, #WillowsTransDiscoveries, #InSqueeNews

My Essays: #ThingsYouCantUnsay

#NoBridge #NoIndex #NoBot #NoSearch

Pronouns: She/Her
HRT Day: 2023-07-14
Nouns: Woman, mom, girl
Adjectives: Trans, lesbian, asexual, polyamorous, vanilla Joined: 2026-09-03 04:24:43 1 notes, 0 following, 0 followers

Vivian, Venus Pirate 🏳️‍⚧️🧋@Willow@chaosfem.tw (2026-09-02 22:30:56) Dear cis parents of trans kids, I’m on my way to four hours of electrolysis.

Seriously, give your kids the hormones they want, it’s SO much cheaper. If you need more convincing, picture me on a table, whimpering and occasionally shrieking, while being tortured with electrified needles on my face and genitals, continually, for longer than the run time of an extended edition lord of the rings movie.

Every month.

For *years.*

I started hair removal procedures the first year of my transition. I’m 3 years in, and I’ll probably still be doing some in three years. I will be suffering like this for longer than the time that most trans children would be eligible for hormone therapy while legally minors (which would start around 13, give or take a few years).

As a mother, I want my kids to not suffer. I know the world is a hard place. I know that being trans is an advanced difficulty setting. I know that letting my kids choose their own paths is important, and that every day trans children are denied the care they need isn’t just that one day of suffering, it’s that day, plus MORE FUTURE DAYS.

Please. Give your trans kids the hormones they need.